Verse for the week of May 13th:
As the Father has loved me, so I have loved you; abide in my love.
(John 15:9)
Abide is not a word that many people use a lot. When I hear this word, I think of the hymn ‘Abide with me,’ which comes from these words of Jesus.
If you look up the word abide, the dictionary says it means to continue, to endure, to dwell, and to last. All of these words create the notion of staying with the person or object. Jesus is calling for the disciples that he is instructing during this final discourse of his to stay or dwell in his love.
But what does it mean to stay in Jesus’ love? How do we remain in his love? What does it look like in daily life?
Jesus answers these questions in the next verse. Right after he tells the disciples to ‘abide in my love’ he says ‘if you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love.’ Hence, Jesus says that to abide or remain in his love is to keep his commandments.
Now you may think–But which ones? Isn’t this legalism?
In terms of which commandments, I think that when the disciples would have heard this saying they would have in their minds Jesus’ words from earlier that evening. For earlier in the evening which is the night of the Last Supper, Jesus told his disciples that he is giving them a new commandment—that they love one another as I have loved you (see John 13).
I think that Jesus is calling his disciples to the task of loving one another. That it is through loving one another that we keep his commandments and thus abide in his love. Another way to think of this is to remember what Luther said about the 10 Commandments—he thought that the first three dealt with loving God and the other 7 dealt with loving neighbor and hence the totality of the 10 Commandments came down to love. That when we seek to love God and neighbor, the observance of these commandments would come naturally for they flow out of loving others.
I think that the intention of Jesus’ words here are not meant to create a legalistic religion or path to righteousness, but rather they demonstrate that our faith in him which is about a relationship means more than simply knowing things about Jesus or even believing certain doctrines or dogmas. Rather, by trusting in Jesus and seeking to be in relationship with him (abiding with him), this means that we seek to live out a life of faith and this life of faith calls us to be attentive to our neighbor. For if we seek to be like Jesus, we will love others (hence fulfilling the commandments) just as he first loved us. This is not a legalistic in the sense that we do things so as to merit Jesus’ love and gain worthiness, rather we do them because this is what was first demonstrated to us and ultimately manifested in Jesus’ act of dying on the cross.
Hence, when we want to abide in Jesus’ love we look to the kind of love that Jesus first showed to us and then we seek to embody that love to others around us. As we accomplish this, we abide in his love and are strengthened in our own faith and then propels us to love others even more—not to gain favor, but as a response to his marvelous and wonderful love first show to us.